I posted a bit of a rant on facebook earlier this week about some form of letting go...
"There are some situations when what you think doesn't matter.. You can share your feelings or state your case until your blue in the face, but sometimes it's just not your call.. That is when we learn to let go."
I have been frustrated in friendships/relationships and trying to make them work and really just needed a reminder... I'm not in control. We can share our feelings and we can practice honest communication... but it doesn't matter if the other person isn't interested. I want you to know how I feel but then if you don't feel the same way, it doesn't matter how I feel. The key then is when to let go and how to let go. We hear stories or read books or see movies of people who held on and kept fighting for what they wanted and in the end maybe even won over their desires. Somehow we have to sort out what is real... and how God wants to use us in the lives of others.
So here we go... sometimes it's just not your call...
I have been frustrated in friendships/relationships and trying to make them work and really just needed a reminder... I'm not in control. We can share our feelings and we can practice honest communication... but it doesn't matter if the other person isn't interested. I want you to know how I feel but then if you don't feel the same way, it doesn't matter how I feel. The key then is when to let go and how to let go. We hear stories or read books or see movies of people who held on and kept fighting for what they wanted and in the end maybe even won over their desires. Somehow we have to sort out what is real... and how God wants to use us in the lives of others.
So here we go... sometimes it's just not your call...
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